Sunday, June 5, 2011

Karen Makes It To High School

Front of Karen's High School



The Entryway of Karen's High School

Karen has made it to High School. Yeah, Karen.  I am very proud of you.  This year was really tough for you, I know that.  However, with perseverance, belief in yourself, improved self-esteem, love for yourself, teachers and friends, pride in your school you conquered the odds of succeeding after missing the previous year and the trauma that you went through. You became a tough cookie and found that there were a lot of people out there pulling for you whenever you needed that extra word of encouragement. You found you were not in this world alone and that your school, teachers and friends had your back.  Pat yourself on that back because you have just entered the next phase of your life. 

In High School you will expand your knowledge of the world around you in not only academics, but in friendship, faith in yourself and others, love for your school and mascot as a member of the theatre arts department and athletics.  You will make loads of friends here for the next four years. Many friends will come and go as you will soon discover the difference between friends and acquaintances. You will go after your potential and at times it will be tough to do as you will be bogged down with just developing your real interests, making new friends, discovering life and it's many challenges and joy, and learning to be a team player on the tennis court.  In High School you will go to dances, learn to work on that first job, one day drive to school and learn who Karen is and has become. And, if you and John continue to date and be the best of friends, you will both graduate together.
Karen and John
You will discover new interests, new friends, new ways to do things, nuances of life and love and just being a High School teenager that I hope you enjoy as you will no longer be able to repeat the excitement that only you can absorb and relish.

This isn't much because it is 4am in the morning when I'm writing this.  But, I wanted to congratulate you again. Karen, you came through a tough time in your life.  You were thrown in 3 different residences in the last year. I enrolled you in one of the toughest Junior High Schools here in the Dallas-Ft. Worth area where you fail if you have anything less than a C. Karen you did it. Karen, through your courage and hard work (your teachers and counselors noted that and was proud of you for that), you made it through. You came into this school a year behind and passed every class, including math.  You did this on your own because you had to do it to make it to High School. You are a winner. 


If you take this self-esteem and confidence you have into High School, you will succeed there as well.  It will be a tough transition. But, your Junior High's standards set you on the course for the higher standards required by your High School.  This High School is also a high performing high school.  It is a top High School in the area in which they expect a lot from their students. It is rated by Texas Education Agency as an exemplary campus, since the 1997-1998 school year, the school has received an exemplary rating based on data from the TAAS testing and PIEMS report. You will achieve your highest potential, if you follow through and apply yourself there like you did in Junior High.

Karen after missing 7th grade and making it through 8th grade a year behind your fellow students, I know you can achieve your High School diploma. You can and will do it.  You have the potential to do it. I am so very proud of the student and young woman you have become. Again, Congratulations on graduating onto High School. I love you so much! MUM

Monday, May 16, 2011

Being A Proud Mom





Karen and Jennifer in November 2010 at the Texas Ranger's Appreciation Night

 

I am such a proud Mother of my wonderful girls.  They are an absolute delight to have around.  There are times, however, that my temper can flare up and they get the feeling otherwise.  But, like all parents of teenagers, life can get a little trying at times. I simply just adore these two charming girls.  It is so fun to relive my teenage years through them as they develop friendships, discover boys, have tickle y tummies when they see certain boys, watch them shop from afar for the latest fashions, take them to their first hair stylist as they try out new styles and listen to them talk about friends, school and boys to each other, even though at times each can be the worse enemy to the other as their competitiveness sometimes get out of hand.  But, they are sisters and the biggest drama queens.

Karen and Jennifer made up as boyfriend/girlfriend.
They also BOTH have a great sense of humor, which has helped them conquer this last year of turmoil.  They have taken their sense of humor and applied to everyday life, to theatrics, school, friendship, sport and music.  They are a joy to have around. I love them so much and they at times keep me in stitches.

Both girls spent most of their 6th and 7th grade year being home schooled (which was a problem for Karen), but have excelled in junior high.  Karen will be attending 9th grade or high school next year and Jennifer will continue on into the 8th grade in PAP classes as she prepares herself for university when she graduates from high school.  Again, I am so proud of both of my girls.  They are charming girls and I love being their mom.




She is so comical when she launches into her summary of how the day went at school.  She gets super tickled talking about how her "boy" friend hugs her, looks into her eyes and loves to sit next to him at lunch.  She adores this boy and it's so wonderful to see my girl develop into this young woman who gets butterflies in her stomach whenever he looks at her.  And, whenever he just wants to hang and talk with his buddies, like all girls her age, she begins to worry that she might have said something that he didn't like and NOW he doesn't like her anymore.  Ah, the sweet times of being a teenager and discovering feelings that you never felt before.  Karen also can become the life of the 'party' as they say as she has familiar relationships with her teachers. She quips, giggles and with a wide smile whenever she meets up with one of her teachers that she loves makes those teachers feel they have known Karen as a friend for a lifetime.



Aside for the academic relationship, Karen and her teachers have forged bonds of respect and one of goodtimes. Her teachers love Karen as she loves them and both let each know how special they are to one another. For missing most of her 7th grade due to personal reasons, Karen has excelled through 8th grade and will be joining her friends next year as she becomes a freshman at high school.  Last week she attended her first tennis session for high school and she is looking forward to going to high school where she will not only be playing tennis, but will be part of the drama department.  She can't wait to move on.

By the way, Karen also LOVES the Irish actor Cillian Murphy and operates a very successful and internationally popular Cillian Murphy Tumblr Fan Account (http://cillianmurphytumblrfanaccount.tumblr.com/). Talk about dedication!





Jennifer loves to do the unusual and has a quick mind.


Jennifer is my little quipster.  She is soooo good at quip comebacks. Wished I had her speed! She is so witty most of the time, yet she has that serious side that sometimes you can't break a smile or laugh out of her no matter what.  She loves to be in 'clicks' for acceptance and she tends to be with the smarter kids.  She excels through 7th grade, even though she missed most of the 6th grade, and is in accelerated classes.  Her report cards are filled with A's and B's and her reading is above average.  She has a great rapport with her science and math teacher, as well as her English teacher. Her science teacher really loves Jennifer as she told me herself.  And, her math teacher may scare Jennifer at times because of her personality, but Jennifer loves her a lot with her dance and slang in class.  Jennifer is an excellent actor and developer of story lines. Her understanding of putting together scenes, script and music is outstanding.  She loves to make small films everyday and her creatively gets high marks.  Jennifer hasn't been bitten by the 'boy' craziness like her sister has.  But, she does like several boys at school and periodically she'll come home and tell me about one or two that she likes or they like her.
Dressing up in a Victorian costume dress
Jennifer is my serious girl and she loves being in the Spanish Club and can't wait to go to university when she graduates. She has a lot of interest in Egypt and archaeology.  She loves to read about those subjects and has made some 5 minute 'films' about Egypt, 2012, aliens and the like. She is such a wonderful girl and it will be interesting when she falls for a boy at school. I can definitely relate to Jennifer, as I was more serious like her when going to school.

Thursday, May 5, 2011

A Salute To Mother's Day


Contrary to popular belief, Mother's Day was not conceived and fine-tuned in the boardroom of Hallmark. The earliest tributes to mothers date back to the annual spring festival the Greeks dedicated to Rhea, the mother of many deities, and to the offerings ancient Romans made to their Great Mother of Gods, Cybele. Christians celebrated this festival on the fourth Sunday in Lent in honor of Mary, mother of Christ. In England this holiday was expanded to include all mothers and was called Mothering Sunday.

Julia Ward Howe

In the United States, and before the noted homemaker Anna Jarvis first proclaimed a day for Mother's, the social activist Julia Ward Howe wrote the Mother's Day Proclamation in 1870, which she delivered at a Women’s Peace Conference in London. The proclamation was an antiwar reaction piece to the brutality of the American Civil War and the Franco-Prussian War.


The Proclamation put forth Howe's feminist belief that women had a social responsibility to shape their societies. By 1872 her ideas developed into Mother's Day for Peace, which provided the foundation for the present Mother’s Day celebration.
  
Anna Jarvis

Anna Jarvis, an Appalachian homemaker, was the woman responsible for giving the world Mother's Day. She first used the term "Mothering Day" to bring attention to poor health conditions in her community more than 160 years ago. She had founded Mothers' Day Work Clubs in five cities to improve sanitary and health conditions. The Mothers' Day Work Clubs also treated wounds, fed, and clothed both Union and Confederate soldiers with neutrality.

On May 12, 1907, two years after her mother's death, her daughter also named Anna held a memorial to her mother and thereafter embarked upon a campaign to make "Mother's Day" a recognized holiday. She lobbied prominent businessmen and politicians to support a national day honoring mothers.She succeeded in making this nationally recognized in 1914. The International Mother's Day Shrine was established in Grafton to commemorate her accomplishment.
 
In 1914, U.S. President Woodrow Wilson signed a bill recognizing Mother's Day as a national holiday. Mother's Day has now become a major money spinner, with The National Retail Federation expecting a rise in Mother's Day spending this year.

The average celebrant will spend $140.73 on mom up from $126.90 last year. Consumers are expected to drop billions on restaurants, flowers, greeting cards and candy. Not surprisingly, this mass consumerism goes against the wishes of the day’s founder, Jarvis. "Any mother would rather have a line of the worst scribble from her son or daughter than any fancy greeting card," she said. Jarvis also once pointed out, "There is no connection between candy and this day."

Monday, April 18, 2011

Karen's New Photoshop Work

Photoshop by Karen



Boy, that Karen sure is getting good at putting together photoshop special effects. The following are pictures of my niece, Emma, looking quite pale. Followed by Jennifer's ginger look.



Karen's picture finalizes her Photoshop work.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Everyone has one....And I...well, I have my own, too. My own Don.


You know sometimes you don't realize how much people you don't even know help make it easier for you through some of the toughest times of your life. And, those people don't know themselves. Well, I just want to go on record to say that the Eagles are those people who I am talking about. And, Henley, is the one guy who I am talking about. Fell for his poetry and voice back in the 70s and have not forgotten him, since then. Yep, he's older since the above picture, but that was the Eagle I fell for back in the 70s. Still love him today--even his mouth and activism that most hate about him. I wish I had the courage to say some of the stuff he is so at ease to say. Boy, I loved it when he put out his own platters. Didn't like all his songs on those albums (The End Of The Innocence being an exception), but the few I did like stuck by me. Here's to you, Don. Love you guy and thanks for being there. Wish I knew you personally to let me you know how much you have pulled me through some tough times in my life.


And, to the Eagles. Love you guys. Your wonderful music and lyrics was the one positive constant in my life, besides my family. Without much of your timeless body of work, it would have been a much more trying time. I lost myself for about 17 years, but I'm back and you guys still shine in my heart and soul. Stay with me....I won't forget you guys.

PS: This is one picture that Don isn't wearing his field boots, but a nice pair of black cowboy boots. I've always wondered why and I guess I'll always wonder why; unless, some else knows why.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

My Girls and their dogs


Karen really loves her dog, Jinxie. And, Jinx is such a funny little sort. She loves to run in circles and yaps as she runs about. Jinxie is such a silly little dog.

Jinxie is also a con- and escape artist. She loves to escape under the small crack in the fence and will go to the front door and asks to be put in. She loves this playful little act. When she's not doing that, she loves to wrestle with one of the cats.

I wonder what Jinxie would look like, if she was groomed and shaved!







Claudia - The Hyper Dog


Jennifer'
s little dog, Claudia, is so funny as well. Claudia loves everyone that comes to house and wants to be the center of attention. She doesn't like to wait for the guest to make her acquaintance--she makes the introduction or says hello first.


Jennifer was given Claudia when Claudia was about 6 weeks old. We were visiting the Animal Shelter when some good Samaritan came in with the puppy that she scooped up off of I-30. Jennifer immediately fell in love with her and without have skipping a beat, the puppy was given to Jennifer without having to go into the shelter. Claudia is so sweet.

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Young Womens Camp 2011

Well, tonight the girls and I went to the Stake Center and signed up for camp that will go from June 7th to June 10th up above McKinney, Texas. Can't wait. The girls saw some of their older YW sisters from their previous Arlington 4th Ward. Karen was especially ecstatic over Delia and Olivia coming up to her.

Both girls broke down into their levels and discussed with their YCLs and adult leaders their up coming trip.

Karen and Jennifer have had it pretty tough this last year or so as for personal reasons that kept us on the go from house to house, they attended at least three different Wards. From Coppell Ward to Arlington 4th and now we are in Arlington 2nd. We really prefer to be in the Arlington 5th because, according to Bishop Phillips, their Auntie Brenda will be attending that Ward instead of the 2nd where we are attending now. The girls just don't want to go to the Ward anymore and want to go back to the 4th. Such dilemmas for teens.

Anyway, the camping trip sounds exciting and I am hopeful that both girls do not back out because they will be quite busy up there. They are not allowed to bring any electronic devices. That will probably affect Karen the most because she has a blog (Cillian Murphy Tumblr Fan Account) and a twitter account (again which details Cillian's activities) that she updates consistently.

Hopefully, all will go well and both girls will attend and come back home with wonderful tales of their big adventure with their friends.

Young Women's Camp

Tonight, both Karen and Jennifer went to the Stake Center to sign up for their summer camping trip up near McKinney, Texas. They are excited because they will be having fun with their former fellow YW group from the Arlington 4th Ward. We are now in the 2nd Ward and the girls are having a bad go at it. They are really tired of changing Wards and they really miss their friends from the 4th Ward.

In the last year, because of personal reasons that were beyond my control, we were members of the Coppell Ward, Arlington 4th Ward and now we are with the Arlington 2nd Ward. I wish that we were in the Arlington 5th Ward because my sister, who just got here from California, will be going there and she helps bring some stability to church life. Oh well!

Anyway, the girls leave on June 7th and come back on June 10th. Almost a whole week without cells, IPODS, mp3 players and other electronics. Boy, Karen will be suffering the most as she runs her blog about Cillian Murphy on Tumblr.

I personally can't wait for them to leave for camp. I know they will enjoy it and it will keep them real busy that week....the first week out of school! So, here's to them....happy camping when it finally gets here!

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Brenda Finally Gets Her House

Well, my little sis, Brenda, from California has finally made it to Texas. She and her two lovely little girls (my youngest little nieces) stayed with us for the last two months while she perused the various neighborhoods looking for the right place to set down her family until they are able to repurchase a home in the area. Eric will be leaving at the end of the month to join his family. It is wonderful to have her in town. I had missed her immensely this last year and half, since I moved here from California. Sisters share a special relationship. This is what I try to express to my own two daughters.

Speaking of her two little girls, Ms. Elizabeth and Ms. Emma, they love school a lot and are happy to see their two cousins, Karen and Jennifer. They love to spend time on the webcam making loads of funny faces, often times involving their dog Claudia and Jack the cat.

What is Karen trying to say?

Poor Jack. He has to put up with a lot.

Jennifer and her masks!

Another silly Jennifer and her poor pooch, Claudia.

Elizabeth, Jennifer and Emma mugging in front of the webcam.

We all can't wait for the summer. We all have a lot of things planned. Baseball games, picnics with Granny and to Joe Poole Lake, Six Flags, etc etc.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Catch-Up Time For Karen and Jennifer

Well, yesterday was the day that I started back trying to keep this blog going and up-to-date. It has been a very grueling year, which saw us move three times to get to where we want to be. Well, anyway, in the right area. I have made a long-term commitment to the girls for their high school years and I hope it will be the right one for them. I do feel confident that it is, as it is a top-ranked school in the area and in some areas of academic study, especially, theater arts, a top-ten in the state. Next year will be Karen's first year in high school, so the friends she befriends at junior high will be joining her in high school.

Two weeks ago she signed up for her ninth grade classes and she and I went on an orientation and tour of her new high school. It is quite a school with over 3,000 students going there. Hopefully, it won't be too overwhelming for her. She's attending a top junior high in the area to prepare her for her new high school.

Both girls go to a very good and highly honored junior high. They win a lot of awards a year in various sporting events (this year the basketball team took first place) and their band just won the local sweepstakes award. This year Karen was on the cross country team, but had to drop out because she had to prepare for her math TAKS test, which measures her aptitude in the subject and allows her to advance to the ninth grade. Since the girls had basically no previous year of school, due to a degradation of my marriage, they have done surprisingly well. But, they have their problems when coming to math because of the missed skill building they woul d have had in the previous grade. Yet, outside of that and being in a very academic challenging school, their efforts are paying off and I believe (and hope) they will succeed and be able to continue on. However, there may be summer school ahead of them to get them on equal footing in the math department.

Outside of academics, they are doing quite well in making friends and keeping busy. Karen has made a wonderful friend named Andie. Karen also runs her own blog on her favorite actor, Cillian Murphy and does it quite well. Very professional looking.

Jennifer continues to excel in media editing and scriptwriting. Both girls, along with Andie, do a lot of filming and uploading on You Tube their various creative pieces they create on weekends. And, of course, Jennifer is still actively involved in her dogs, Claudia and Audrey.

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Charlie Sheen - DUH WINNING!


This is an honourable mention regarding Charlie Sheen. While visiting Amarillo, I had the opportunity and the pleasure of spending time with my sister Stephanie who has this amorous appetite for bad boy Sheen. After sitting through a DVR showing of Charlie's 20/20 Interview and watching my little sis sign up on Sheen's Twitter, I saw that she was absolutely bowled over by this Two and A Half Men star. His recent antics has set the media all ablaze and Stephanie has even gone out and purchased a T-Shirt with a Sheen-ism on it. Well, I could not let this pass for one moment without letting my wit catch up to this splendid opportunity to highlight my sis' infatuation with this "ooone craaazy duuuuude", Charlie. So, I quickly went to work on Photoshop to combine a photo of Stephanie's T-Shirt with the Sheen-ism on it with a little local Amarillo flavor (as she is from there), but without the fine bells and whistles that it truly needed (time was of essence as she normally goes to bed about 9pm). So, without further ado, here is the final artwork (again, it was a quicky (naughty naughty thoughts--shame on you!)).

Charlie Sheen


I did forget to mention that during my visit to Amarillo, I had the pleasure of watching my sister, Stephanie and her love affair and infatuation with Charlie Sheen. Well, Charlie has had his problems lately, especially as it is playing out in the press. While there in Amarillo, we watched a 20/20 program on Charlie and his troubles. It was pretty evident to me that Stephanie was...and still is...in love with this guy. So, in light of the excitement that Charlie is bringing my little sis, I decided to put together a quick magazine cover, minus the bells and whistles, before she went to bed for the night displaying her amorous feeling for the bad boy. So, not much to see, but here is the final product, with the Amarillo Boots representing the local feel.

Visit to Amarillo


Well, I got to visit my sister, Ms. Pamela last week. It has been over 5 months, since I last seen her or my sister, Ms. Stephanie. During this trip, I also got to see and visit all of my nephews, Rian, Roger and Jeremy. I also got to visit with my nieces Sarah and Cassie. It had been over a year, since I last seen them. All in all in was a very good trip up and back with my mother. We had some real quality time together during our trip. I really love visiting family now that we are all so much closer together. A highlight of my trip was to see my first great nephew, Kason. He is absolutely adorable. Big eyes and cherubic cheeks. Very sweet little boy. My niece, Jessica, is such an endearing mother to Kason. And, of course, my sister, Stephanie Diane, was as proud as she could be in her delight of her first grandbaby. It was a wonderful trip.